Oh dear husband of mine,

Now please inform me when exactly are we supposed to sit down and have a conversation with your daughter about her behavior if you are never around to have that conversation with? And the times that you are around you don't bother to sit down and have one. So when I suggest having that conversation during the car ride home to her mother, you shoot me down stating that's not the time nor the place to have it. Do you think I don't know that, but when you are so sparse and she doesn't listen to anyone else, when else are we supposed to do this? Then you swear up and down that she is not being treated differently from the other children who do live with us, but when it comes down to it, you do treat her completely different!

You never truly discipline her, and when you do, you don't sit down and explain to her why she's being punished. You just do stupid shit like skip your visitation weekend because of how she behaved last time and not tell her the reason. HELLO MCFLY!!!!! Do you think she's going to magically know that you're fed up with her antics and that is why you're not picking her up? Communication is a wonderful thing oh husband. Maybe you should learn to have some with your kids!

With much love, even if I'm pissed off at you,

Your very much agitated wife.